The Wisdom of Memory

by J. Kirk Gulledge, ED.D.

Remember the days of old; consider the generations long past. Ask your father and he will tell you, your elders and they will explain to you. (Deuteronomy 32:7)

What is more precious than our memories: the remembrance of a shared experience with a special friend, a parent’s words of advice, a new insight from an admired teacher, a personal discovery about life? Most people can vividly recall many happy experiences such as their first date or camping trip, and they can still feel pain from a time they were caught and upbraided by their parents for a forbidden act. Our memories help us to relive events and feelings from our past that have helped to shape us into what and who we are today.

Memory, in fact, is far more than just the ability to recall past events. It is the special capacity that God has given to people to make the past present for application to all that it touches, to make it "eternal" within our lives. How often do we make a decision based upon our memory of an experience which molded our thoughts and which still lives with us today?

Memory as a Spiritual Filter

It is only through our memories that we are able to understand the meaning and depth of the events of our lives. In the midst of a crisis or at the moment of a success, it is difficult to comprehend the real importance and impact of that event on the future course of our lives. It is only in retrospect as we relive that event through our memories that we can begin to see how it has been sewn into the larger tapestry of our existence and how it may have influenced our thoughts and subsequent actions. The true significance of an experience may only be evident after the passage of time as it is viewed through the filters of memory.

The value of memory for understanding and interpreting the past is as important on the corporate or societal level as it is to the individual. For the Children of Israel, the forty-year sojourn in the desert wilderness was a difficult and demanding experience at the time it was happening, but the memory of that event has had even more profound importance in shaping their understanding and worship of God through the rest of history. It was only in retrospect that Moses could teach the Israelites the meaning of their experience. "Remember how the Lord your God led you all the way into the desert these forty years, to humble you and to rest you in order to know what was in your heart, whether or not you would keep his commands" (Deuteronomy 8:2).

The desert experience was cited again and again over hundreds of years by prophets, psalmists and New Testament apostles as a seminal event in the life of God’s people. One psalmist reminded them of their rebellion against God: "How often they rebelled against him in the desert and grieved him in the wasteland" (Psalm 78:40). Another psalmist reminded them of their self-centeredness: "In the wasteland they gave in to craving, in the wasteland they put God to the test" (Psalm 106:14). The prophet Amos reminded them of God’s

leadership during this time. "I brought you up out of Egypt, and I led you forty years in the desert to give you the land of the Amorites" (Amos 2:10). Jeremiah used the memory of the desert to remind them of their calling to faithfulness to God. "I remember the devotion of your youth, how as a bride you loved me and followed me through the desert, through a land not sown" (Jeremiah 2:2).

Through the passage of time, the telling and retelling of the story of the desert wandering became part of the fabric of the lives of the Children of Israel, and its memory became a key part of the corporate memory which shaped their understanding of God. Each time the story was remembered and retold, the experience gained a new richness and depth, and it allowed understandings of the truth of the event to emerge which were only possible through the vitality of memory.

The desert wandering was just one of the hundreds, or perhaps thousands, of stories which were preserved first by oral tradition and later in writing to teach lessons for living and worship, to maintain continuity of life and faith, and to remind the Children of Isreal of their special covenant relationship with God. To know God was not to name him–indeed, they refrained from even pronouncing the name of God–it was to recall the stories of His actions and His mighty works in their lives. For example:

"Has any other people heard the voice of God speaking out of fire, as you have, and lived? Has any god ever tried to take for himself one nation out of another nation by testings, by miraculous signs and wonders, by war, by a mighty hand and an outstretched arm, or by great and awesome deeds, like all the things the Lord your God did for you in Egypt before your very eyes?" (Deuteronomy 4:33-34).

"Sing to the Lord, call on his name; make known among the nations what he has done. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles and the judgments he pronounced" (Psalm 105:2, 5).

In a real sense, the Bible is a record of the collective memories of the Children of Israel as they have experienced God. Many of the stories were written down hundreds of years after the events took place when they had been distilled to the true essence of their spiritual meaning. The details of many of the stories are sparse, but the essence of their meanings and their application to the lives of the Hebrew people was clear and strong.

One of the most important qualities that sets the stories and the historical record of the Bible apart from other histories is its sacred perspective on the events of history. Rather than viewing the past as a succession of flat and one-dimensional occurrences, the Biblical writers saw history as the purposeful and continuous act of God. The stories of the Bible reveal the basis and background of life and its dimension of eternity. Every event is reported for a reason and each reveals a dimension or truth about God. In many cases, the spiritual truths revealed by an event of history may not have been obvious at the time it happened, but the memory and retelling of the event from a sacred perspective brought the truth to light after the fact, and this truth was preserved through the telling of the stories for generations following.

In the New Testament, the Gospel of John was written several decades after the other Gospels and it has quite a different perspective from Matthew, Mark and Luke on the events of the life of Jesus. Because of its differences, some readers have questioned its historical accuracy. In fact, the account of John may provide the truest history of the four Gospel writers because the true spiritual significance of Jesus’ ministry had emerged with greater clarity with the passage of time than was obvious when the first three Gospels were written. It was important for John to record the events again from a sacred perspective to bring out and preserve their extraordinary spiritual meaning which had only become evident through the filters of time and memory.

Memory as a Guide to Holiness

Throughout the Old Testament writings, the ability to remember and learn from the past is equated with obedience and holiness, as in the following passages:

"Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and the Lord your God redeemed you from there. That is why command I you to do this" (Deuteronomy 24:18).

"Look to the Lord and his strength, seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles, and the judgments he has pronounced" (II Chronicles 16:11-12).

"From everlasting to everlasting the LORD’s love is with those who fear him . . . with those who keep his covenant and remember to obey his precepts" (Psalm 103:17-18).

On the other hand, the lack of memory is equated with sin and disobedience, as in the following:

"They set up Baal-Berith as their god and did not remember the Lord their God, who had rescued them from the hands of all their enemies" (Judges 8:33-34).

"They refused to listen and failed to remember the miracles you performed among them. They became stiff-necked and in their rebellion appointed a leader in order to return to their slavery" (Nehemiah 9:16-17).

Memory of the Elders

From the time of Moses onward for many generations, groups of elders were appointed to advise and assist in the leadership of their clans, tribes and communities. The elders (from the Hebrew word zaqen which is from a root which means "beard" or "chin") were the senior members of their clans. They were those who had the longest memories and most profound perspectives on life from which to draw counsel and provide wisdom to younger generations. The elders played an important role in the life of Israel. Seventy of the elders participated with Moses at the covenant meal at Sinai (Exodus 24:9-11). As the task of governing Israel grew in complexity, part of the burden was transferred to a council of seventy elders (Numbers 11:16-17). The elders played a crucial role in David’s getting and retaining the throne (II Samuel 3:17). In the legal codes of Deuteronomy, the elders were responsible for administering justice, sitting as judges at the city gate (Deuteronomy 22:15), deciding cases affecting family life (Deuteronomy 21:18-21; 22:13-21), and executing decisions (Deuteronomy 19:11-13; 21:1-9). Clearly, the Hebrew pattern of life valued the elders as dispensers of wisdom and judgment based on their longer lives and subsequently greater knowledge and insights regarding the nation’s history and relationship with God.

Making the Past Present through Memory

The key importance to the Hebrew people of remembering their stories and their spiritual history underscores the profound importance of memory. Human beings are the embodiment of their past. What any person or people has become has been formed slowly over the years like a tree with concentric rings. Our past is a strong part of our present, and we can deal with our present struggles meaningfully only when we understand them from the perspective and lessons of our past.

Rather than simply serving to recall past events, our memory has a larger function of feeding the present and enhancing our daily experiences which a richness of understanding that enables us to make good decisions and to live wisely. Our memory acts as a powerful filter that colors and adds meaning and depth to all of our perceptions. Through its interaction with our daily experience, our memory keeps the past alive and present to continue shaping our decisions for the future.

The Hebrew elders served a vital role in preserving the past and interpreting the present through their longer perspective on life. To younger generations, they were a living history and a link to the generations who had gone before. Because of their greater number of years, the elders had more opportunities to grow spiritually and consequently more insights into the significance of events which occurred in their lives. Most importantly, the elders could help interpret how the events fit into God’s purpose for his people and his creation. The memory of the elders was truly a resource of wisdom and guidance for younger people in the application of lessons from the past to the needs of the present (see Deuteronomy 32:7, at the beginning of this article.)

Memory as the Root of Wisdom

Without memory, there is no wisdom. Insights and judgment cannot be formed in a vacuum but only through thoughtful pondering and reflection on the issues through the filters of memory. Our individual and collective memories shape our current reality and give us the capacity for growing in wisdom, as did the Hebrew elders. The key ingredient needed to distill wisdom from memory is a sacred perspective which recognizes God’s hand and seeks His purpose in all of life’s events.

"The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding" (Proverbs 9:10).

With this sacred perspective as the starting point and guiding light, the memories of the past and the events of the present merge into the larger picture of eternity. True wisdom is only possible when one is able to view current events and struggles as part of this "larger picture," which is ultimately a reflection of God’s plan for His creation and His people.

 

Dr. Kirk Gulledge is a retirement community consultant with Asbury Development & Management. With a doctorate from Arizona State University in Educational Gerontology, he has over twenty years of experience in assisting retirement communities provide effective services to older adults. His interest in the Jewish roots of the Christian faith provides an important framework for his ongoing responsibilities for senior ministry. Kirk and his wife Jan live in Ft. Myers, Florida.